Ah, childhood—the golden age of innocence, where love is pure, play is carefree, and hate is always taught by some mustache-twirling adult villain. Right? Wrong.
Let’s be honest: glamorizing childhood is dangerous. Why? Because it erases the chaotic little sociopaths many of us were back then. Think about it—babies aren’t born holding hands, singing Kumbaya. They come out screaming, demanding things, and occasionally biting their fellow tiny humans just to see what happens. They’re scientists of the social world, conducting experiments like, “What will happen if I bite Timmy? Oh, he cries? Let’s do it again!”
From an early age, kids notice differences and make snap decisions. This isn’t some learned prejudice—it’s raw, unfiltered human nature. "That kid’s hair is different. Should I touch it or run? Their lunch smells weird. Should I ask for some or yell, ‘Ewwww!’?" Love and hate are just two sides of the same messy, exploratory coin.
The Problem with the "Love is Natural, Hate is Taught" Narrative
This feel-good slogan sounds lovely in Instagram posts with pastel fonts, but it oversimplifies human emotion. It paints this idyllic picture of childhood where everyone is naturally kind and generous until some adult corrupts them. But where does that leave the kid who pushed you off the swing in third grade just because they wanted to watch you cry? Spoiler: they weren’t coached by an evil overlord. They were testing the waters of cause and effect.
It’s like calling kids “blank slates.” Sure, they’re blank, but that doesn’t mean they only write sonnets and paint rainbows. Some scribble chaos all over the page, and that’s natural too.
The Truth About Tiny Humans
Glamorizing childhood makes us forget just how dangerous it is to assume kids are inherently "good." Kids are curious, unpredictable, and often selfish, and that’s not a bad thing—it’s a developmental thing. They’re learning. They’re figuring out how the world works, and sometimes, that learning involves testing their capacity to love, hate, or occasionally dump sand on your head.
By pretending childhood is this pristine utopia, we risk ignoring the very real challenges of teaching empathy, kindness, and self-control. Those things don’t magically emerge. They’re cultivated—and often through trial and error (and tears).
Childhood: The Real Takeaway
The next time you hear someone romanticizing childhood, remind them that for every heartwarming “kids are so pure” moment, there’s a story about the time little Johnny stuck a crayon up his nose and blamed his sibling. Childhood isn’t just laughter and sunshine; it’s messy, raw, and often hilarious—but also a reflection of the complexity of human nature.
Let’s stop pretending kids are naturally angelic, and start acknowledging that childhood is where the seeds of both kindness and cruelty take root. Love and hate? Both natural. Both inevitable. Both hilariously chaotic in their origins.
Childhood isn’t a golden age—it’s an experimental lab where we figure out how to be human. Let’s treat it that way, with the honesty (and humor) it deserves.
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